A woman named Lilly reached out to share the emotional toll her husband’s behavior has had on her. Over the years, their marriage had been loving and respectful. However, about a year ago, her husband began criticizing her body odor despite no changes in her hygiene. His daily comments caused her deep distress, even leading her to shower multiple times a day, use strong deodorants, and seek reassurance from friends and family.
The breaking point came when Lilly overheard her husband speaking to his mother about how his comments had led to a lack of intimacy, and that his father had used similar tactics on her mother to manipulate her. Lilly was devastated, realizing her husband’s cruelty and manipulation, especially with the advice from his mother. She now feels betrayed and plans to divorce him, but also seeks revenge before leaving, as she can’t imagine living with someone who treats her like this.